Ahhh...That New Class Smell

Friday, May 25, 2012 by Heather Carter

The thing about lifelong learning is, even after you've acquired the formal education you might need for your career, as an inquisitive human being your brain continuously craves more information. That's why the Internet is so powerful, right? It's driven by information. How do things work? What events in history led to where you are? How do you accomplish certain things? Who else has written about, discovered, or invented the subject matter that you find fascinating?

There's a reason that Granite State College used to be called the College for Lifelong Learning. And that former title was one of the major factors that drew me to the school. I am a lifelong learner. Ever since high school when I first became able to pick my own classes, I've always gotten so excited over the new course schedules. So many amazing choices with so many possibilities to learn something new!

Now, since Granite State College's website has become more advanced, it's easy for me to explore the new class offerings online. And it doesn't matter that I've already graduated because you don't have to be enrolled in a degree program to take a class here or there.

Here are some Concord, NH classes that look promising for the Spring term in 2012:

"Modern America and the Movies"

"Society and the Individual"

"Nutrition Concepts and Controversies"

"Vietnam War: An Historical Perspective"

And if I wanted to take college classes online in July and August, these look really interesting:

"Interpersonal Communication"

"American Popular Culture"

"History of New England"

"Survey of World Architecture"

Here's the link to the full summer course schedule:

http://www.granite.edu/courseschedule/summer2012.html

 

 

 

 

 

High School VS College

Saturday, April 2, 2011 by Maria Bauer
A few weeks ago, I ran into an old friend from high school. A few days after that encounter, I ran into another friend from high school. It's always amazing how you feel when you run into old friends. There are some people you get very excited to see, and others you get this feeling in the pit of your stomach and in all honesty, you may try to dodge them from seeing you. For most people that I have met (post high school) it's a time in their life they want to forget. And seeing someone from your past can bring up some uneasy feelings that you thought you had buried. 

The reason I bring this up is because seeing two of these people (one from each 'category'), I began to run through in my head what high school was like for me. I tried to remember my teachers, how they taught, the environment, etc. A lot of my high school teachers were very strict about assignments and due dates and making sure they made NO exceptions, because they were trying to prepare us for the "real world" and for college. 
Because of how we were being "prepared", I didn't want to go to college anymore. Of course I had ambitions and I DID want to go to college, but I was expecting that it would not be the experience I had always dreamed it would be. Not after those experiences...
I may not be where I thought I would be when I was 16, but I'm happy to see where I am today. I'm in college, and in a short number of years I will have obtained two adult education diplomas. The exact same outcome as if I had gone off to college right after graduation. 
The differences between high school and Granite State College are numerous! In high school you can become invisible. Very few people know your name, interests, etc. At this Concord, NH college campus, you walk in the front door and you are greeted by your first name! (Side note: I mention Granite State College's Concord, NH college campus because it's my "home base." I go there a great deal, even though I take classes sometimes at the Manchester, NH college campus). 
In high school, no exceptions were made; here at GSC, teachers will work with you and they understand that life happens. Many students who I have taken classes with have demanding jobs and/or children. 
These adult accelerated degree programs are very different from high school. Of course there are always exceptions, but my guess is that these programs work because everyone there has the same goal: to make life better for us. That includes fellow students, and it also includes the faculty. Hazing and bullying don't go on at college (or at least this one). This is the one place you will always look back on as a positive experience. It's a second chance for people (or third, or fourth...). 
In many years down the road you run into someone who you went to college with, there will be no uneasy feelings; you'll finally have an educational experience you are more than happy to revisit. 
The moral of this story: don't let your past experiences hold you back from really living your life. It's always the time to create some new experiences, and you know you'll be better off for it. 

Computer Issues

Monday, March 28, 2011 by Maria Bauer
There's nothing more frustrating and nerve-wracking then your computer Internet connections giving you problems when you are trying to make a deadline for your online adult education classes. It can never be the days when you know you have a few days to submit an assignment: no, no... it's always on Sunday starting at 6pm, and it's the end of the module (which means nothing can be submitted after Sunday midnight), and you can spend HOURS trying to get your computer working and when it does, it is now Monday morning. 

So what can you do about this? Fortunately, everyone in the Granite State College system are very understanding, and will help you in any way they can. Whether that means going to the college and using their computers, or working with your teacher(s) explaining the situation. My experience has shown me time and time again that the teachers don't want to see you fail: they genuinely want you to do your best and pass the class. And for those who participate and put in the effort, they will help you in any way they can. 

In some respect, high school was harder than college. 

I recently had some *very* annoying Internet issues, and I was very touched at how the faculty helped me. Which got me thinking about other technical issues I have had in the past. Any time I had a question about a form that adult Financial Aid sent me, or any letter about my schooling, I can call them up, or stop over at my home base (the Concord NH college campus), and they will take the time to answer any questions that I have. They are there to help make this process easier for us; including helping us with forms and/or submitting grant requests, etc. It's a true example of adult education services. 
Everyone needs help at one time or another, and I will never forget all of the hands that have been and are reaching out to help. As corny as it sounds: Granite State College is a family. No one is excluded. Everyone knows your name, and it has that true feeling of "home" away from home. 

3 weeks left!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011 by Maria Bauer
The end of the term is approaching fast. I have taken my first 5 week intensive online class. This (of course) is held the last 5 weeks of the term: which is the same time I have major research papers due in my other classes. It's a different type of experience. What's great is that adult education classes have the correct forum to try new things. Everything you do, every class you take will help you in your future endeavors. And everyone is traveling down the same road you are.

I am currently in this place where even though there are only 3 more weeks of classes, I know that time is going to fly by, however it feels like the days are never ending. This is the time when papers are due, quizzes are there to finish, etc. Outside of school, things have seemed to pile up and everything has now been officially moved to "#1 priority" which need to be done yesterday.

Life does this to you. These moments help define who you are as a person. I cannot even begin to tell you how many strong people I have met that will repeatedly stand up to the challenge. It's at these home stretches where you either "break" or walk against the wind "fight or flight."

I am a person who reflects...a lot! I was thinking about my first weekend intensive class I had at the Concord NH college campus here at Granite State College; not so much about the class itself but the atmosphere of it all. It was a very comfortable place for me. Not only was the class itself filled with information, but what was happening around us. Our class was constantly laughing - so much we had to shut the doors. The best part about it: we weren't the only ones! There were Foster Parent Classes right down the hall. Whatever you were there for, everyone seemed to have a glowing aura.

Career College Training is a resource that has become more easily accessible. From 4 year colleges, to strictly online classes, to adult accelerated degree programs (or even adult education certificates) which can be completed during day and/or night classes: there is something for you out there! 

How does this relate with this being the end of the term for me? It's because I have been put in a position where I need to pick myself up off the ground, dust myself off, and get ready to fight for the next 3 weeks. These 3 weeks will be a test and I can guarantee you I will learn more about who I am as a person. Every experience, new or repeated, will help push us to where we would like to see ourselves. Hard work pays off: although I wouldn't mind having a personal genie at times :) 

Franklin, NH Partnership with Granite State College

Thursday, January 6, 2011 by Betsy Gemmecke
I am really excited about the expanding partnership that the City of Franklin has with Granite State College. A very energetic committee of Franklin agencies and citizens have partnered with us to increase the visibility and access of our college to its residents.

The second Tuesday of the every month I will be at the second floor of the Franklin Public Library to encourage people to consider further education and career advancement.  Many people  do not realize that affordable college study is within their reach. Students can take college evening classes in Concord and elsewhere in the state; and also can benefit from online adult degrees.

On Tuesday January 11, I will be running a free workshop for anyone unsure of their future direction. We will discuss non-traditional paths of learning and strategies to move ahead. Many people I have met don't believe they have the skills to go to college and feel "rusty" since they have been out of school for a while. Actually they will find the process is easier than they think and there is extensive adult financial aid available for people returning to school. The first step is really to take a risk and meet with someone to begin to explore future options.  I will be in Franklin once a month and I hope people will feel comfortable to meet me at the Library for an informal chat when I am there, perhaps over coffee.

"Make life happen for you instead of letting it happen to you!"

Fall semester

Friday, October 22, 2010 by Mary Clouter
It's hard to believe that it's fall.  One of my friends on Facebook was saying that they thought they saw some snowflakes early this morning!  Winter is coming much too fast, but when I pause to check out the fall colors, it really is a beautiful time of year.

Soooo, this semester is in full swing and we're about halfway through it.  I signed up for three courses this semester: "Counseling," "Human Development," and "Human Biology."  I'm taking the Counseling class at GSC's Concord NH college campus and taking the other two courses online.

I really wanted to take the Counseling class (an elective) even though it was in Concord and could be a long commute from Southern NH, about 15 minutes from the Mass border.  I have found so far though, that it is a much easier and faster commute than I expected.  It's convenient that the Concord campus is close to the highway too.

The classes are going well, though I have to admit that Biology is not one of my favorites.  Just in general, science has never been one of my strongest subjects.  Actually, it finishes dead last on any scale in my life.  Though I have to say that even as an online class, Human Biology is going much better for me than I expected.  It's a tough subject for me, but the format of Blackboard, the online learning environment, and the instructor's involvement and motivation in the class has helped me to, so far, to have a B average.  The instructor deserves a medal! 

Blackboard has a number of ways to help a person learn.  There are the discussion board questions and topics that instructors post that help to look at something in different ways, there is the text book reading that provides a great source of information, weekly quizzes, and also a semester research project.  I thought I might miss face-to-face conversations, but Blackboard and instructors who provide direction and support has made it so that there's almost always an online conversation going on at any time of day.


Signs, Signs, Everywhere Are Signs

Tuesday, September 14, 2010 by Heather Carter
After the idea started percolating in my head that Granite State College (formally College for Lifelong Learning, or CLL) just might be the perfect route to my long-desired college degree, I still hesitated. After all, it was really scary. The notion of going to college at all made me nervous. The notion of going to college as an adult, years after most people with whom I'd attended high school had already graduated from higher education institutions, was really daunting. Going to college while working full-time and raising a child as a single mother, seemed utterly terrifying.

I calculated how long it would take me to graduate with a Bachelor degree if I only took one 4-credit class a term. 38-years-old?!? That idea floored me. Then I thought, well, I'm going to be 38-years-old eventually anyway. I might as well be 38-years-old with a degree! However, I still couldn't bring myself to make the call to the school to start the process.

Then mysterious things started happening to me! Suddenly, it seemed that I was constantly reminded about the college, after never having heard of it before. I'd be listening to the radio while I worked and I'd hear an ad talking about the college and how it offered classes at the Concord, NH college campus (perfect for me, since I worked in Concord at the time). I'd be in line at the bank and would overhear people discussing the school and how they offer online college English classes (I'd longed to study English and literature). Suddenly, a friend that I'd known for years happened to mention that she was attending CLL's graduation ceremony where her sister was celebrating her newly-acquired adult education certificate.

It was so strange! This kind of thing seemed to happen over and over again. And, as if the universe's message couldn't pummel me any harder, everywhere I went I'd see the initials C.L.L.-- especially on license plates!

I remember the actual moment when I surrendered to the signs that bombarded me. I was sitting in my car noticing yet another car's license tags that contained the letters CLL. I threw my hands up in the air, laughed gleefully, and said out loud, "Okay, okay. I get it! I'll go!"

The next day I called the main number and, within minutes, had an appointment scheduled with an adviser. And my college career had begun!





Football season is hear again

Saturday, September 11, 2010 by Gail Gifford

It is Saturday evening, just got home from work and what a crazy day.  I deal with Ohio dealerships and needless to say, when the football game started today on TV, there was not a deal come through for me to look at. It is an exciting time of year. Not many people are thinking about going to buy new cars the first day of football season. Lots of guys love to sit on the couch for the afternoon, watch the game, drink a few beers and have a few laughs. Some of my girlfriends love to do the same from time to time. I am not a huge football fan but do like the excitement of it and I love to watch the Super Bowl at the end of the year.  

Fall is my favorite time of year, the wind is cool and we are all winding down from a busy summer. Whether that summer consisted of vacation, seeing family or taking a class at Granite State College in one of there many locations like Portsmouth NH College, Concord NH College, Claremont NH College, Manchester NH College or onine classes for college.  Lets not forget about that unforgettable experience to take a class on the Isle of Shoals.  We are all winding down and thinking about the fall, maybe fall classes or just what the next year may bring our way. 

Football kind of starts that all off; friends, new beginnings, expectations and goals for the year to come. Go Team!!  Whatever that team may be.


The College Years in the Age of Technology

Monday, August 23, 2010 by Leslie Bowering
The college years of students--younger or older-- in the age of technology abound with opportunities to succeed at Granite State College.  Websites are available--every baby step of the way-- to guide students along but only if they choose to investigate them.
 
I have attached a link about Career Advice that may be helpful to students who are undecided about which course or academic direction they may want to take, whether they are attending classes in Rochester NH college, Concord NH college, Claremont NH college, or Manchester NH college campuses.

It is necessary to have a sense of what direction to take.  Perhaps the use of a website like this one could help students decide whether they have a better aptitude for the Behavioral Sciences offered through Granite State College or maybe  they are more inclined to pursue Early Childhood Education Classes there.  Either way, the technology abounds to provide information when college Advisors are not available at the end of a telephone line.  At least this website gives students someplace to start.     

http://career-advice.monster.com/job-search/Getting-Started/Try-This-4-Year-Career-Checklist/article.aspx

Adult Education is all about independently acquiring information, skills, and success. Technology is available to also help students form questions they need to ask of their Advisors.

Why not click on this website, dip your toes in and get yourself organized for the the Fall Semester.  Granite State College empowers students to ask questions and achieve answers. 

Communication

Sunday, August 15, 2010 by Deidre Romeo

We have all been communicating since we were toddlers, what more can we possibly learn about communication after forty plus years of practical experience?  A lot!  One of the core courses required for an adult college degree is a Communication class.  I decided to take the Small Group Communication course which was being offered as one of the weekend college classes at Granite State College during the summer semester of my freshman year.  My plan was to get all of my core classes out of the way as soon as possible so that I could concentrate on the business and elective classes I was actually passionate about.  I had no idea communication would become one of my passions.  I had been running PTO meetings during the previous academic year for my daughter’s charter high school.  I thought I was doing fine as the facilitator of these meetings but after taking the small group communications class at GSC I realized I had been less than effective in this role.  When our PTO meetings resumed in the fall I utilized the use of “ice breakers” to help create a sense of comfort, ease and familiarity between the group members.  I was also able to identify and draw out participation from the members that were less than enthusiastic in playing an active role in the group.  Through my learning and understanding of the group dynamics of our PTO I was able to become a more effective leader in this group and therefore elicit more active participation and positive results from our meetings.

After I found the real life advantages achieved through the knowledge attained from my first communication course I immediately decided to take another as an elective in my adult college program.  The next available Concord NH Classes offered included Presentational Communication.  I had hoped to gain the knowledge and expertise to adequately present power point reports in my other adult college classes.  Much to my surprise the course was really more about public speaking without the aid of visual presentations but instead being able to simply speak to an audience without the distraction of any other medium.  This course made me the most uncomfortable of any course I took over my undergraduate career but I gained the most useful knowledge, experience and confidence than I did any other class.  Since completing this course I have spoken at press conferences, to the House of Representatives, to the University New Hampshire System Board of Trustees and to the audience of the GSC 2010 commencement ceremony. 

The next and most relevant communication course I enrolled in at GSC was Interpersonal Communications.  In this class I learned about many aspects of communication which I was not currently utilizing in my daily interactions with others.  I learned how to identify and communicate with different personality types.  I learned how my own personal communication style was perceived by others.  Most importantly, I learned how to LISTEN, not just hear what others were communicating to me.  During the difficult years of trying to communicate with my teenage daughters I had read numerous books and attended countless workshops to assist me in this impossible task.  It was not until this Granite State College communication course that I actually understood what the authors and social workers were trying to explain to me during those years.  This was a huge breakthrough in my life, both personally and professionally.  I now understand how to “hear” what others are trying to tell me and how to assure that others “hear” what I am saying.  My relationships, learning and daily life have all been enhanced by this new-found understanding of effective communication and its positive effect on my life.

The most profound lesson I learned from my Communications Professor, Dr. Stenho, is that I am lifelong learner.  I knew I would learn about new business strategies and concepts, I had hoped to learn to become a better writer and understand the science behind today’s environmental crisis by attending adult college courses but I never thought I would learn anything new or useful about communication.  The knowledge and experience I have attained from the numerous communication classes I took at GSC has prompted me to attain my MBA in Organizational Communication.  The lack of an effective communication channel by many of my past employers has always been a concern of mine and I now believe I can make a difference in this respect at any organization I may become involved with.

Are you a lifelong learner?  Do you enjoy attaining knowledge which enriches both your professional and personal life?  If so, stop hesitating and contact an academic advisor at Granite State College today.  This  is the first step in the rest of your life.  After all, it is your turn!






Second Chances: An All New GSC!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010 by Chris Perley
I had put my dreams of a college degree away and carried on with my life.  I was busy, and happy in my career, but really never thought I would "close the book" on an adult education diploma.  I was enjoying some success in my career and as luck would have it, I was promoted to Lieutenant of the Conway Police Department.  This was a happy time for me but a crossroads as well.  Now that I was an administrator, would I have the credibility dealing with budgets, Boards and Committees?  I new I had to take another look at finishing my educational journey.

In December of 2007, I went down to the local Granite State College office and met the greatest people.  From my academic advisor Nancee Caughey to the office staff, Cindy, Patti, Julie and Molly, they were all clearly pulling for me to get back in the game!  They could tell that I was nervous about returning to classes after 15 years, especially the online classes for criminal justice.  I wasn't the most computer savvy guy and I was more than a little intimidated.  They explained the process of re-enrollment, accuplacer testing and the many new programs available to help me obtain an accelerated undergraduate degree. 

The thing that caught my attention first was the huge variety of degree choices.  I had choices like Associate in Science in Business, Criminal Justice or even General Studies.  All of these choices were now available online too.  No traveling to the Berlin NH College or to any Concord NH Classes for credit.  I settled on continuing with a Business Degree, now at the Associate level, and realized I was actually more than half way there!  My fear was replaced with excitement and a renewed sense of purpose.  I thought, "This is really going to happen!"

Next:  Online classes, test outs and the impossible becomes possible!    

A Luncheon of Pride Sandwiches

Thursday, May 20, 2010 by Deidre Romeo

I was honored to be asked to speak at this year’s Granite State College induction ceremony of the Alpha Sigma Lambda honor society members over the weekend.  I was thrilled to recognize so many faces of fellow classmates from Concord NH classes as well as seeing the faces for the first time of classmates from online classes for college amongst the inductees.  It is one thing to have your parents share in such an honor but it is a totally different experience to have your parents, spouse and children share in the celebration of one’s accomplishments along the way of attaining their adult college degree.  I became teary eyed as those I knew, and those I had never before met, accepted their pins and spoke of their gratitude and love for the family members that have supported them in their pursuit of academic excellence.  Most everyone present had parents, siblings, grandparents, and children in attendance. 

There was one classmate, or more adequately identified as a friend, who’s teenage son nearly knocked over a row of chairs in his quest to get pictures of the mom he was so proud of.  Another friend’s adult sibling ran up to the stage unconcerned with blocking the view of the audience to assure he got the pictures he wanted of his sister in her proud moment of being pinned into the honor society.  I could not help but notice the pride, love and admiration of the wife of a fellow online classmate and acquaintance of mine.  This woman beamed as her wife accepted the honor and thanked God for the opportunity.

The 37 students inducted into the Honor Society this past weekend were all the “meat” in pride sandwiches.  They had the love, support and pride from the generation above, their parents, and from the generation below, their children.  There simply is not a better tasting sandwich than this!

Congratulations to all of this year’s inductees.


The more things change???

Thursday, March 18, 2010 by Beth Benoit
 If you've ever taken a social psychology course, you might have heard about Milgram's obedience experiment.  If you haven't (but maybe would like to?  We have them at Granite State College in adult online classes) here's a quick synopsis:

In 1961,  an infamous Nazi war criminal, Adolf Eichmann, went on trial in Jerusalem for his part in the mass deportation of Jews during World War II.  His defense was that he was "only following orders."

Stanley Milgram, a Yale psychologist, wondered just how far people would go to "follow orders."  Before he began, he asked fellow psychologists how much they thought "a normal person" would shock a fellow human being if ordered to do so by an authority.  His colleagues said that only the most disturbed would do so.

Stanley set out to find out.  He set up an experiment where people thought they were shocking another person.  It started out slowly, but continued to increase.  Why did they do it?  A stern, convincing experimenter, dressed in a lab coat and seemingly in authority, told them they "had to do it."  And the amazing thing is, 65% of them went all the way to 450 volts.  (Luckily, the "shock generator" didn't really give out any voltage and the other person, unhurt, was just acting.)  The world was stunned, and social psychology students continue to be horrified.   

Here we are, almost 50 years ago, and this was tried again, this time on a supposed "reality" TV show in France.  Here's a clip of it, and you don't need to speak French to realize that the people in the audience are given the chance to "shock" a person.  It's pretty sobering:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCamiWs-KMs

The director of the TV show was horrified to find that time time, 81% of the contestants agreed to go all the way.

It was reported that "One contestant interviewed afterwards said she went along with the torture despite knowing that her own grandparents were Jews who had been persecuted by the Nazis."

Well, not everything that you learn in adult classes and adult online classes is quite so grim, but I promise you, it's always interesting and thought-provoking!

Give some thought to opening your mind to new ideas by taking a college course.  You can take a course in Concord NH at our Granite State College Concord campus or at any of the other eight campuses we have across New Hampshire, or you can take it in an adult online class from wherever you are.  You can even take it in a combination, where some of the classes take place in the classroom and some take place online.  



Spare Time

Monday, March 15, 2010 by Beth McKenna
What do you do with your spare time? If you are like most people, you probably don't have a lot of spare time. You are probably running from one thing to another. Maybe you have a job and a family and friends that you juggle your time for. But what about in the evening? Are you sitting in front of tv watching commercials for New Hampshire Colleges and Universities? Maybe an add for a Concord NH College, or a Manchester NH University caught your eye. But you say to yourself, "no way, not me, I can't go to college."

But why not you? Do you realize that you could be taking courses at home on your computer instead of watching tv? You could be enrolled in a course at Granite State College right now at home, or you could be in Rochester, Concord, Manchester, or any number of locations sitting in a classroom and learning new things.

Oh, I lost you again. You say to yourself, "I can't sit in a classroom. I am too ____," (old, tired, busy..) But what if you went to class one night a week? Everyone else in the room is just as busy as you. Even most of your instructors are working somewhere else during the day. They know what it is like to juggle responsibilities. So instructors give you work that is geared to help you in your profession, classmates support one another and suddenly, TADA! You have taken your first course.

Give it a try! Granite State is a place where adult learners can grow and learn and only by giving up a tv show or two!


Energized

Wednesday, February 10, 2010 by Jeanne Lester
Like much of America, I got drawn in to watching tv's "The Biggest Loser."      I began watching one of those marathon sessions running (conveniently) on New Year's Day, and for the first few minutes I was intrigued by watching the contestants struggle through their rigorous diet and exercise regime, spurred on by the hope of a different future.  Once I began to see evidence of their progress, in the form of lost pounds and found confidence, I was hooked.  I am a bit embarrassed to say that my whole family (ok, not the 4-year-old) allowed this program to chew up the better part of our day, as I sat making food lists with new resolve.  We watched together and cheered on these folks who were moving past the beginning struggle of change, toward the goal, and vicariously shared in their victories.

As I am buckling down to complete the assignments due in my next class, it strikes me that the process of furthering my education is a bit like that diet & exercise struggle.  The goal is important---finishing my degree, and expanding my knowledge.  Although the day to day steps of studying and stretching myself are most often enjoyable, I sometimes go through a cycle of self-doubt --"can I really do this?".  But even in the midst of that process--the struggle leaves me energized.

The first class I took at Granite State College was one of the Concord NH classes "Critical Thinking."  I didn't know what to expect---it had been several years since I had been in school---and actually, I got something I didn't expect ---energy!  I had anticipated being tired, drained, and overwhelmed after class; after all I was sitting down to class from 6 - 9:30 in the evening.  Not exactly my most productive times!  The process of settling into a classroom with no other distractions (no one needed a sippy cup, help with laundry, or input on fundraisers for any committee) but the flow of new ideas, combined with the input from a group of fresh faces was absolutely exhilirating.  I came away feeling charged up and eager to talk.  I sat down with my husband for a couple of hours and chatted with him, had philosophical debates, and just enjoyed the very non-mundane conversations.  

I'd love to say that I came away from that first experience a constantly confident, calm person.  Not quite.  There have been a few classes where I still reach a point of doubt, and a couple of times when I have thrown my papers on the floor, marched out into the living room and announced "I am not going to do this anymore!"  When this happens my husband grins to himself, looks at his watch, and waits for my little "rain dance" to be over.    He knows that within 5 minutes, I will have calmed down, and have gotten back to work.  Funny thing is, after these breakdowns I usually manage to produce a project that turns out very well, and the victory following that initial frustration can't be beat. 




Similar to the discovery that through exercise you actually gain energy; the journey through education and career advancement through Granite State College has brought with it an energizing source of new ideas, as step by step I'm achieving my goal. 

Relationship Education

Sunday, January 24, 2010 by Jeanne Lester
I'm thinking alot about relationships lately.  Perhaps due more to the class I am currently enrolled in -- Interpersonal Communication -- (one of the many "weekend intensive" Concord, NH classes I have taken) than due to the upcoming Valentine's Day hoopla.  I enrolled in the course, figuring it would be useful in my current job, as well as my future career path, but it occurs to me that this subject matter has many immediate practical applications.

Already I have picked up tips that will assist me in communicating with my husband, my kids, my boss, my dry cleaner, etc.  Very useful.  But as I sit in class looking around me, it strikes me how intriguing it is to get to know the others sitting there.   Although some of us are taking part time classes, and some are fast tracking through accelerated studies, for the next couple of weekends this class is the equalizer, bringing us all together to work through the same material.  Thinking back to any of my classes, I chuckle thinking of the first impressions I had of some of my classmates--and the resulting surprise when I began to slowly see the layers of personality "revealed." 















Robin was just one of those surprises.  I met Robin in a writing class, and she was quiet, serious, and expressed to the instructor her "reluctance" (I think it was loathing?) to write.  As the first few weeks went by, Robin entertained us all with her witty comments, boisterous laugh, and phenomenal writing.  So much for first impressions.
 
Another case for unexpected bonding with classmates----"stuck" on an island with 10 other strangers for four days.  Sounds like a bad TV reality show, right?  Yeah, I had my doubts as I looked around at these folks I would be spending day and night with.  I was prepared as if for survival.  Due to the age of the old, wooden hotel we were staying in, we were unable to bring with us any hair dryers, straightening irons, or any other implement requiring electricity.  (Eeeeek!) And yes, that meant no laptops, or cell phone chargers.  The result?  We loved it!  We had class most often sitting in rocking chairs on the extra-wide porch overlooking the ocean, and had actual conversations with each other. 




















We played cards together at night, had fresh food--family style, and face it--after 2 or 3 days with none of us showering (very rustic) there's not much room for pretense. We laughed a lot, got serious, and struggled with our work at times, and by the end of that couple of days there was an odd sense of reluctance to leave the island.  Though we each brought very different situations, experience and personality to that class--we had new appreciation for each other and new friendships to take home with us.

Although not every class lends itself that nicely to forging new friendships, I have come to enjoy that first day of class as I wonder about the people sitting around me.  Which ones will surprise me most?  Which ones will I get to know better?  Ya never know.  So whether or not you take the class "Interpersonal Communication" (which I do recommend), don't overlook the relationship education going on all around you.  You just might be surprised.

Sitting at the Crossroads

Saturday, January 16, 2010 by Barbara Grant
Part of what knits humanity together is the common ground of our shared experiences.  It is on this common ground that we build our relationships.  My job at Granite State College in New Hampshire places me at a crossroads where I meet people who are going through many of the same learning and life experiences I had as a student and  I have the opportunity to share a bit of what I learned, hopefully making it easier for the students. 

Recently, a new student came to the Concord NH office for a meeting with her adviser and to register for her first classes.  She didn't come alone.  This student was accompanied by her father - and her one-year-old twins!  Her dad would care for the children while she attended to the business beginning her journey towards a degree.

As we talked, I learned her twins were preemies, born months too early.  She was surprised to learn that I, too, had a preemie - 35 years ago! - and that my preemie would soon be making me a grandmother for the first time!  Our conversation went off the adult college education track, veering over to the "mommy track," as we compared our experiences.  How early did our babies arrive?  How much did they weigh at birth?  How long were they in the hospital? 

She asked me if I had had a hard time finding clothes for my preemie, did it take long for my daughter to catch up developmentally to the children in her age group.  I told her how in the beginning the hospital took surgical masks and cut them in two to use for diapers.  On the wall in my office, she could see visible proof, my daughter's recent photo, that babies born as tiny as hers grow up to be perfectly normal adults with perfectly normal lives. 

And I, the experienced, older of the two, learned something from her that I hadn't known before.  While identical twins come from the same egg, they each have their own amniotic sac.  Well, almost all of them do.  This student's twins actually shared an amniotic sac which put them in the category of the rarest of identical twin births! 

College is so much more than book learning.  It is "life learning."  In telling our stories we not only share a piece of ourselves, we pass on the benefit of our experiences and in the process make our lives and the lives of those we interact with richer by far.